My fiance' is a nut. He insists on having 9 men stand on his side. He said they are all his best friends and he wouldn't be able to cut any of them out. To make matters worse, he said he can't choose a best man. Instead he is referring to them as a covenant of best men. I do not feel like throwing people in our wedding just to make the sides even. I know they don't have to be even, but I only have about 4 girls that I would truly want to be in my wedding. What do I do because it doesn't seem like he is budging. Thanks for all of the great ideas...
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my ex husband had lots of best friends like that....why don't you suggest that he make some of them ushers? that way they're still in the wedding, they still get to dress up, and they won't all be walking down the isle and up in the front. that's what we did and they still dressed the same as the groomsmen and took pictures with us at the end. and doesn't he have a dad or an uncle or something that is special to him that he would want to be the best man? that's what i've seen in every wedding....dad, uncle, brother.....